Do you know the three levels of attachment play?

Do you know the three levels of attachment play?

Hello! If attachment play is new to you, you might like to look at my free ebook on it HERE. If you’re already familiar with it, I wonder if you’ve thought about it operating at three different levels. This is how I think of it. CONNECTION AND CHOICE LEVEL...
How to help your child be freer to be willing to cooperate with you!

How to help your child be freer to be willing to cooperate with you!

Hello! Would you love to help your child to be freer to be willing to cooperate with you? In order to help them, we need to understand WHY they don’t cooperate at times. From my perspective, a child’s true nature has what I call the 3 ‘C’s...
Three ways to help us respond effectively and empathically to hitting, biting, pushing, taking and throwing.

Three ways to help us respond effectively and empathically to hitting, biting, pushing, taking and throwing.

In this article, I’m going to start with the three reasons why it can be hard for us to respond empathically and effectively to our children when they’re hitting, biting, pushing, taking and throwing. And then I’m going to talk about 3 ways we can respond to these...
Why Present Time is the Opposite of Behaviourism!

Why Present Time is the Opposite of Behaviourism!

Hello!     Behaviourism had a big effect on parenting; particularly the beliefs that:     1. Children need to be told how to behave in ways that we want them to;     2. We need to give them ‘attention’ when they are doing things that we want them to do...