by lovingbeing@iinet.net.au | Jul 5, 2019 | Power and Powerlessness in Parenting, Power-with in Parenting, Self-Compassion for Parents
We are at the tail end of a long long time of power-over in parenting, and a new paradigm of power-with is coming into the world. In this transition phase, most of us are at the intersection of these two paradigms. In the old paradigm, parents, who have...
by lovingbeing@iinet.net.au | Jul 3, 2019 | Get Free From Guilt, Inner Loving Presence Process
Such a strange and old-fashioned idea, isn’t it, that we will become more loving by judging ourselves and feeling guilty when we don’t feel loving. Has feeling guilty or judging yourself when you don’t feel loving ever helped you feel more loving? I’m...
by lovingbeing@iinet.net.au | Oct 30, 2017 | Compassion, Get Free From Guilt, Inner Loving Mother, Inner Loving Presence Process, Loving Limits, The Willingness Practice
Hello! This is for anyone who frequently judges, shoulds, have-to’s, and compares themselves. If you saw two children in a park, and one was hitting the other one with a stick, would you keep on watching? If the stick hitting was happening day in and day out, would...
by lovingbeing@iinet.net.au | May 26, 2017 | Aware Parenting for ourselves, Compassion, Conditioning, Evolving as an Aware Parent, Get Free From Guilt, Healing From the Past
Hello! I used to be full of shame. Those excruciating feelings of discomfort all over my body. The desire to hide away. I lived it, day after day. And for many years, I thought it was just another feeling, like sadness. Even after years of training as a...
by lovingbeing@iinet.net.au | Oct 25, 2016 | Claim Your Feminine Power, Compassion, Inner Loving Presence Process, Love your Life
Hello! How are you? This is one thing that I get really fired up about. It’s guilt, shame, self-judgment, and self-punishment. For most feelings, I’m passionate about encouraging us to be more compassionate with them, to listen to them more, to be more...
