Reducing repression, aggression and agitation in children

Reducing repression, aggression and agitation in children

  As parents, when we have access to a compassionate understanding that all children have feelings to express as a result of daily stresses and bigger challenges,   and we have enough emotional capacity to listen with loving presence to their feelings,...
Playing before sleep

Playing before sleep

  Have you ever noticed that your child can become extra playful, just when you’re wanting them to wind down to sleep?   One of the many things I love about Aware Parenting is the deep trust it has in a child’s innate wisdom.   A child’s psyche, body...
How babies and children learn to repress their feelings and our choices to respond

How babies and children learn to repress their feelings and our choices to respond

Hello! I’d like to start with:   My journey with feelings and repressing feelings. I’d love to share my own journey with this over the years.  When I trained as a psychospiritual psychotherapist in the 1990’s, I learnt all about feelings and addictions and...
Three things that babies and children need for restful sleep

Three things that babies and children need for restful sleep

Hello again! I did a FB live on Saturday, all about sleep from an Aware Parenting perspective. You can watch it HERE. (I’m going to do a sleep Q and A FB live soon too; so if you have sleep and AwP questions, come along and ask on my FB page HERE.) I’ve also made a...
Why Present Time is the Opposite of Behaviourism!

Why Present Time is the Opposite of Behaviourism!

Hello!     Behaviourism had a big effect on parenting; particularly the beliefs that:     1. Children need to be told how to behave in ways that we want them to;     2. We need to give them ‘attention’ when they are doing things that we want them to do...