That divine download you receive – the idea to write the post, write the book, create a course, start a business, that’s the Calling.
That’s where your Soul is connected with Source.
That aliveness, the flow of energy, the joy, that’s you connected with your true nature, lovingness and willingness.
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If we’d all grown up in a culture where a child’s uniqueness was seen and honoured, where there was celebration of differences rather than comparison and grading,
where a child’s preferences, interests and gifts were nourished and nurtured,
where judging and shaming didn’t exist,
then we’d all receive the Callings and act on them with trust and ease.
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But because most of us didn’t grow up in a culture like that, two things often happen instead, after we receive a Calling:
1. INTERNALISED VOICES show up;
2. INNER CHILDREN call to be heard.
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I believe that this happens for two reasons, both of which are due to the wisdom of the psyche:
A ~ When we see something in the present that’s familiar to the past, we apply the conclusions we first made about that thing, so that we can have automatic responses and don’t need to think afresh about each event;
B ~ When the present reminds us of the past in some way, our inner children who experienced those experiences show up to be heard and ‘healed’.
In both cases, this is the wisdom of the psyche – to create ease, and to allow healing.
Unfortunately, if we don’t realise what is going on, it’s so easy to identify with these responses that are ABOUT THE PAST and believe them to be ABOUT THE PRESENT.
So when those thoughts of, “I can’t do this” | “I don’t know enough to do this” | “I’m not xyz enough to do this”, WE MIGHT BELIEVE that that is about the present, rather than realise that those are conclusions we made when we were little, or voices that we internalised back then.
And when fear, terror, apprehension shows up, we might believe that those feelings are about the situation now, rather than realising that those are often the feelings of younger parts of us when we followed our calling or shared our gifts.
So, the first step is REALISING that these are FROM THE PAST and not about now.
The Soul Calling is about NOW.
The internalised voices and inner children are about the PAST.
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THEN, rather than just identifying with those thoughts and feelings, believing them to be about now, and responding based on those, we can choose to respond differently.
INSTEAD, we can see this as a beautiful psychospiritual INVITATION:
1. To update the conclusions and internalised voices with ACCURATE CONCLUSIONS and your SOUL RESPONSE, and;
2. To listen lovingly to the feelings of your inner children and give them reparative experiences.
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1. UPDATING THE CONCLUSIONS AND INTERNALISED VOICES>
That means, whenever we hear the judgments, the comparisons, the second-guessing, the doubt, in response to the Calling, we can gradually replace them with accurate conclusions and our Soul response.
“I trust that you have the capacity to carry out the callings you received.”
“I know that you can do this.”
“Your voice is unique and beautiful.”
I do this with my Inner Loving Crew.
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2. LISTENING LOVINGLY TO THE INNER CHILDREN FEELINGS AND GIVING REPARATIVE EXPERIENCES>
I do this with my Inner Loving Presence Process.
The first step is always listening with loving compassion to our inner children: “I hear that you’re scared, little 5 year old Marion, and I’m right here with you. I’m listening.”
There’s a whole process to go through with the ILPP, including our inner children getting to say what they needed to say and hear what they needed to hear.
We can give them reparative experiences. So if 5 year old you was shamed when you got up and sang a song, in the reparative experience, those around you might truly see you and deeply celebrate you.
In the present moment, I might also say to scared 5 year old me, “I hear that you’re scared, sweetheart, and I’m right here with you. I’m going to run the workshop. You don’t need to run it. You could sit beside me and play, or hide behind my skirt, or stay at home with the rest of the Inner Loving Crew. What would you like to do, lovely?”
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Every time we receive a calling and go to take action on it, and those internalised voices or inner children show up, we are being invited to respond from our here and now loving self and hear the little parts of us, so that we are increasingly free to follow our callings with that natural inborn ease and flow.
Not only do we have the increasing pleasure of following our callings, but we’re also helping our personality evolve so that it’s a more accurate reflection of our soul.
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I have some relevant offerings, if you’d like to learn more:
TIER ONE: PRERECORDED COURSE:
Inner Loving Presence Process for Entrepreneurs:
This is a self-paced stand alone course to help you:
Use the willingness practice to move through procrastination and fear;
Connect with your Inner Loving Crew to give you empathy, reassurance and celebration as you take action;
Use the Inner Loving Presence Process to heal old hurts that show up either as fears or other feelings, or outside events that appear to stop you from moving forward;
Understand the Conversation with Life and how Life is giving you support and information about your next steps.
It’s a self-guided, self-paced standalone course that you have lifetime access to!
It’s designed to help you:
~ Find more compassion for yourself and your needs whilst also doing what you love;
~ Harness the generative power of your force to take action and get in flow;
~ Respond compassionately and effectively to yourself when fear arises, rather than forcing yourself through it;
~ Heal from old hurts that show up as you take your next steps;
~ Listen when apparent ‘resistance’ shows up in the form of tech glitches or health issues, so you can keep moving;
~ Understand the messages that Life is bringing you.
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TIER TWO: LIVE COURSE WITH SISTERHOOD (FB GROUP) AND PRE-RECORDED TRAININGS:
Respond Lovingly to your Calling:
This is a 16 week course that combines support for you to do the inner work and videos of exactly how you can create an online business.
During the live round, there are 16 weekly live trainings in the FB group, with a deep sense of sacred sisterhood. (they are available afterwards as replays)
The rest of the content is all prerecorded and self-paced and contains:
Clarifying your vision and purpose;
Receiving the creative downloads;
Authentic relationship with your clients and customers;
Authentic self-expression – social media, writing, videos, FB lives, etc;
How-to (branding, canva, MailChimp, social media, IG, FB ads, domain name, online course creation, opt-ins etc);
Balancing masculine and feminine;
Peaceful planning and productivity;
The Inner Processes and Practices – your Inner Loving Crew, The Willingness Practice, The Inner Loving Presence Process, The Conversation with Life.
Bonus – receive the Inner Loving Presence Process for Entrepreneurs Free!
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TIER THREE: 1-1 MENTORING
Psychospiritual Entrepreneurship Immersion:
This is 1-1 mentoring that also includes training material to help you deeply understand what is going on in your soul’s journey so you can willingly take action to respond to your soul’s callings, be more compassionate with yourself, and heal old hurts that show up along the way.
I’ll help you stay connected with your callings, get free from self-doubt and second-guessing, change your inner dialogue, find willingness to take action, compassionately neutralise fear, and listen lovingly to little parts of you that show up on your entrepreneurial journey.
Message me for details!