by Marion Rose | Apr 20, 2022 | Aware Parenting, Loving Limits
I wonder if you ever offer a loving limit to your child when they are throwing, taking, hitting, or being rough with the dog but they keep on trying to do it? Do you find it helpful to remember that they are not doing it deliberately and they are not enjoying it, but...
by Marion Rose | Apr 20, 2022 | Aware Parenting, Loving Limits
Loving limits express a ‘no’ to a chid’s behaviour and a ‘yes’ to the feelings that are causing the behaviour. * In our behaviour and language, we are communicating both compassion AND a clear limit. We are pairing empathy, eg. I see that you’re...
by Marion Rose | Jan 9, 2021 | Love and Will, Loving Limits, Neo No, Psychospiritual Development
A key part of my work is in understanding Love and Will in applied situations so that we then have the opportunity to respond using the lovingness and willingness work. In politics and parenting, understanding where we tend to sit in terms of Love and Will can help us...
by Marion Rose | Jan 6, 2021 | Attachment Play, Aware Parenting, Consciousness, Conversation with Life, Domination Culture, Fear, Inner Loving Father, Inner Loving Mother, Love and Will, Loving Limits, Neo No, Neo Yield, Psychospiritual Development, Terror, The Marion Method, The Willingness Practice
THE MARION METHOD, THE NEO NO AND THE NEO YIELD – PART ONE The next piece of Marion Method theory and practice is coming to me, via a Message from Life (where else!?) This work is about the evolution of our capacity to respond to what we perceive as a threat....
by Marion Rose | Nov 6, 2020 | Decolonisation, Domination Culture, Language, Loving Limits, Neo No, Psychospiritual Development, Rage, The Marion Method, Will, Will-Hurts
(and whilst we’re at it, I also don’t say “It’s not okay” and will also explain why!) As a preface, if you love the word ‘boundaries,’ or the phrase “It’s not okay,” I deeply respect and support you in that. This post isn’t about judgment; it’s about an...
by Marion Rose | Mar 22, 2020 | Colonised, Conditioning, Consciousness, Control Patterns, Conversation with Life, Decolonisation, Domination Culture, Evolving Through Parenting, Fear, Feelings, Feelings, Gaia, Healing From the Past, Inner Feminine and Masculine, Inner Loving Mother, Loving Limits, Psychospiritual Development, Psychospiritual Parenting, Repression, Repression mechanisms
If you’re familiar with my work, you know I talk about the power of Loving Limits. We can set Loving Limits with a child when they are hurting others or themselves, or when they are using repression mechanisms to distract themselves form painful...
