Do you know the three levels of attachment play?

Do you know the three levels of attachment play?

Hello! If attachment play is new to you, you might like to look at my free ebook on it HERE. If you’re already familiar with it, I wonder if you’ve thought about it operating at three different levels. This is how I think of it. CONNECTION AND CHOICE LEVEL...
How to help your child be freer to be willing to cooperate with you!

How to help your child be freer to be willing to cooperate with you!

Hello! Would you love to help your child to be freer to be willing to cooperate with you? In order to help them, we need to understand WHY they don’t cooperate at times. From my perspective, a child’s true nature has what I call the 3 ‘C’s...
How babies and children learn to repress their feelings and our choices to respond

How babies and children learn to repress their feelings and our choices to respond

Hello! I’d like to start with:   My journey with feelings and repressing feelings. I’d love to share my own journey with this over the years.  When I trained as a psychospiritual psychotherapist in the 1990’s, I learnt all about feelings and addictions and...
Three ways to help us respond effectively and empathically to hitting, biting, pushing, taking and throwing.

Three ways to help us respond effectively and empathically to hitting, biting, pushing, taking and throwing.

In this article, I’m going to start with the three reasons why it can be hard for us to respond empathically and effectively to our children when they’re hitting, biting, pushing, taking and throwing. And then I’m going to talk about 3 ways we can respond to these...