Cooperation!

Cooperation!

If you were at a job, and your ‘boss’ came to you and said in a rushed and tense way; “Right, today you have to do this new project. You must start it now.” Would you feel willing to do it? But how about if she came and said in a warm and relaxed tone; “Guess what!...
Hitting

Hitting

Does your child hit, bite, or are they rough with you, a sibling, other children, or pets? The cause of all these behaviours is pent-up painful feelings: either powerlessness, frustration, agitation, or fear. You might be thinking; “But she doesn’t look scared.” But...
Babies feel during birth

Babies feel during birth

As a baby, I was born at 30 weeks and was in an incubator for 6 weeks, and this experience ignited a passion in me from my teenage years onwards to understand what babies experience during and after birth. I remember the first time that I realised that our birth...
Why Attachment Play is the opposite of behaviourism

Why Attachment Play is the opposite of behaviourism

Up until recently, behaviourism has been the core tenet of mainstream parenting and was particularly influential in America. 𝕭𝖊𝖍𝖆𝖛𝖎𝖔𝖚𝖗𝖎𝖘𝖒 𝖎𝖘 𝖇𝖆𝖘𝖊𝖉 𝖔𝖓 𝖈𝖊𝖗𝖙𝖆𝖎𝖓 𝖇𝖊𝖑𝖎𝖊𝖋𝖘: A human’s true nature is ‘bad’; A parent’s role is to have power over children; Children...