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		<title>Children&#8217;s feelings and repression mechanisms</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Feb 2020 02:06:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>How babies and children learn to repress their feelings and our choices to respond</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Oct 2017 00:15:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hello! I&#8217;d like to start with: &#160; My journey with feelings and repressing feelings. I’d love to share my own journey with this over the years.  When I trained as a psychospiritual psychotherapist in the 1990’s, I learnt all about feelings and addictions and trauma. But I thought that addictions were a discrete class of [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Eating for Nourishment or Disconnection?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2015 21:44:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hello! How are you? So many of us as women turn to food to avoid feeling our feelings.  I wonder whether you ever do? We want sweetness, nourishment, nourishment, and fulfillment, and food can be a way we try to get that. Or we want to escape feelings of sadness, loneliness, frustration, or flatness. Many [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Living Aware Parenting</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2015 23:10:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Get Free From Guilt]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hello, I want to offer you my free four day Get Free From Guzzling Guilt course It consists of four, daily, emails, with a video that goes with each email. It is such a passion of mine to inspire, encourage and support mothers to free themselves from guilt so that they can love their lives even more. Guilt really [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>I love Loving Limits!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Aug 2015 04:18:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When my children were younger, I used to use loving limits quite a lot with them.  Now that they are older, I don&#8217;t use loving limits often. I&#8217;m much more likely to go for connection and attachment play. But last night, I did use loving limits with my son (9), and I thought you might be interested in reading about [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Parenting is a Path of Transformation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2015 10:32:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I thought I would listen to all of her feelings, meet all of her needs, and she would grow up completely free from all control patterns, completely in touch with all of her feelings, and really a completely free human being. It took me a while to realise that this doesn&#8217;t give justice to Aware Parenting. It is not something [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Aware Parenting has Helped Me Transform</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2015 10:21:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&#160; When I came across Aware Parenting, I was pregnant with my now-13-year-old daughter.r. I had already spent the previous decade in weekly therapy; with 5 of those years training as a Psychosynthesis Psychotherapist. And although I healed so much, learnt so much, and had such a beautiful background having done all that I did, Aware Parenting took my own self-development [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Aware Parenting isn&#8217;t just about our children!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2015 10:17:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Because if we want to listen to our child&#8217;s feelings, we need to listen to our feelings. Because if we want to understand what lies behind our child&#8217;s challenging behaviours, we also need to seek understanding for ourselves when we act in ways that we don&#8217;t want to. Because if we want to bring our child up without punishments, we need [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Thumb-sucking from an Aware Parenting perspective</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2015 01:59:46 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Before I start, I’d like to include a preface &#8211; that I long for deep self-acceptance for all of us parents. It is so easy for us to judge ourselves for things we have or haven’t done, and to judge other parents for their different parenting choices. &#160; My intention is to go beyond judgments [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Aware Parenting Interview with Hilary from Mother and Luxe</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2015 07:18:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I had fun answering questions from Hilary Nichols at www.motherlandluxe.com   ON AWARE PARENTING ‘Aware Parenting is based on the idea that we all naturally love to connect, cooperate, and contribute, and that our natural state is aware, present and centred.  From in utero onwards, we experience things that create uncomfortable feelings in us. We have [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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