Loving limits

Loving limits

Loving limits express a ‘no’ to a chid’s behaviour and a ‘yes’ to the feelings that are causing the behaviour. * In our behaviour and language, we are communicating both compassion AND a clear limit. We are pairing empathy, eg. I see that you’re...

The Neo Yield and the Neo No

THE MARION METHOD, THE NEO NO AND THE NEO YIELD – PART ONE The next piece of Marion Method theory and practice is coming to me, via a Message from Life (where else!?) This work is about the evolution of our capacity to respond to what we perceive as a threat....
Why I don’t say, ‘boundaries’ and what I do say instead

Why I don’t say, ‘boundaries’ and what I do say instead

(and whilst we’re at it, I also don’t say “It’s not okay” and will also explain why!) As a preface, if you love the word ‘boundaries,’ or the phrase “It’s not okay,” I deeply respect and support you in that. This post isn’t about judgment; it’s about an...
Is Gaia setting Loving Limits?

Is Gaia setting Loving Limits?

    If you’re familiar with my work, you know I talk about the power of Loving Limits.   We can set Loving Limits with a child when they are hurting others or themselves, or when they are using repression mechanisms to distract themselves form painful...