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		<title>Separation anxiety</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2025 02:10:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In what I call The Disconnected Domination Culture (which is not an Aware Parenting term), there is a focus on early independence. This cultural value means that in this culture, most parents are not taught about secure attachment. All babies and children have strong attachment needs, because those are the safety instincts that our hunter-gatherer [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
		
		
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					<description><![CDATA[Almost anything can be done to suppress feelings. However, some common ways that children can suppress feelings are: Thumb or finger sucking Nail biting or nose picking Teddy or blanket clutching Eating or drinking to suppress Screens to suppress Rather than judging them or judging ourselves, we can see these as what I call &#8216;flags [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2022 11:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Does your child pick their nose? What do you tell yourself is the cause and how do you feel and act when you think that? From an Aware Parenting perspective, nose picking is one of the myriad ways that children use to dissociate from uncomfortable feelings. When we understand the cause of the nose picking, [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Intergenerational responses to feelings</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2022 11:23:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m sending you lots of compassion as you read this information. Understanding this process can help us connect with painful feelings and conditioned self-judgments. I really value deep self-compassion for us all, and believe that it is through self-compassion that change most easily comes. How our feelings were responded to deeply affects how we respond [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2022 11:05:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[All children experience daily stresses, however much we aim to meet their needs and protect them from harm. The majority of children also experience bigger stresses, which could be called trauma. Each child differs in the amount of stress and trauma they experience &#8211; some experience smaller amounts, some experience lots. Each experience of stress [&#8230;]]]></description>
		
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		<title>Is Gaia setting Loving Limits?</title>
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		<title>Seeing our child&#8217;s repression mechanisms</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2020 05:54:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Feb 2020 02:06:45 +0000</pubDate>
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